Conversation, Praise

Change the world by helping a GRRRL

GRRRL is a clothing line, designed for women who don’t fit ‘traditional’ body types. At least, that’s what you think when you first come across their Facebook page, or their website. A careful look, however, reveals a movement designed to empower women, to lift each GRRRL up and support her successes, failures, and all the… Continue reading Change the world by helping a GRRRL

slut shaming
Behind The Scenes, Conversation, NSFW, Rant

5 slut shaming habits you should stop doing immediately

Slut shaming happens every single day. I'd even wager a bet that you have slut shamed in the past but I'm willing to hope you didn't do it intentionally. I'll address intentional slut shaming as well (you might take a moment to check and see if your panties are flame retardant). What is slut shaming… Continue reading 5 slut shaming habits you should stop doing immediately

Behind The Scenes, Conversation

The Dirty Guide to Depression

Depression is real. According to a 2017 study by the World Health Organization, depression affects more than three hundred million people across the globe. That's close to eleven percent of the population. Think about that. You might think eleven percent is a pretty low number of people but when you look at the math, it's… Continue reading The Dirty Guide to Depression

keto cauliflower
Behind The Scenes, Conversation, Recipes

The Keto Oracle Ham and Cauliflower Soup

I dislike cauliflower. It would even be safe to say that I hate cauliflower. To me, very similar to beets, it tastes like dead mud. However, being diagnosed with Stage Three Renal Disease can do wonders for a picky eater like me in being open to trying new foods. When I came across this recipe… Continue reading The Keto Oracle Ham and Cauliflower Soup

masturbation
Conversation, NSFW, Rant

Masturbation and the female identified

Masturbation falls into one of two categories, depending on your identification. Entire industries are built around the male sexual desire. Adult entertainment, from strip clubs to phone sex, is all geared around the man and turning them on. I openly benefit from that because of my involvement with sex-work; which brings me to my second… Continue reading Masturbation and the female identified

Conversation, Praise

Painting, jewelry, and self-reflection

Friendships come easily to me. Not sure why but people tend to gravitate towards me and I love learning about them and what makes them unique. One would think, when something comes so easily, that I might take those friendships for granted. I don’t. Each friendship I have is important to me for whatever reasons… Continue reading Painting, jewelry, and self-reflection

Conversation, NSFW

7 Things depression taught me not to take for granted

Depression is more than just having the blues. According to the Center for Disease Control, depression is a serious medical illness. It affects one out of every twenty Americans over the age of twelve and is more prevalent in women than men. It can affect a person's ability to work, do well in school, socialize,… Continue reading 7 Things depression taught me not to take for granted

self-care
Conversation

Self-care, social media, and PTSD

Self-care routines. Even just saying the phrase can be confusing to those of us in Generation X, or Baby Boomers. Admittedly, I was in my forties before I heard it the first time and had zero clue what it even meant. Thankfully, I have a built-in Generation Y translator (my son; henceforth referred to as… Continue reading Self-care, social media, and PTSD